Friday, May 23, 2008

Poligami - Ceteknya pemikiran lelaki


Call to ‘teach’ women on polygamy raises heckles Friday May 23, 2008



THE discussion on problems afflicting the Syariah Courts caused a ruckus after Ibrahim Ali (Ind – Pasir Mas) called for a campaign on the concept of polygamy to be taught to all women to end such problems.


Minister in the Prime Minister’s Department in charge of Islamic Affairs, Datuk Ahmad Zahid Hamidi, fielded questions from the Opposition on delays in settling Syariah cases with Zuraida Kamaruddin (PKR – Ampang) saying it was “very painful” for a woman to have to go to court three separate times to settle a case.



“A woman has to go once for the divorce, once again for custody and again for property division. It is extremely painful for them.”


Fuziah Salleh (PKR – Kuantan) then asked if Syariah Court counsellors were qualified, pointing out that she had received numerous complaints about how the woman was always blamed for everything.
“They are not counselled but given 'advice.' And every time, they are told that the woman is to be blamed. If it is a family problem, they must be patient. If they are beaten up, they must also be patient,” she said.




As Ahmad Zahid was about to answer, Ibrahim stood up to say that such cases would not stop happening as the population was increasing and divorces were taking place daily.

“Such problems happen because women cannot accept polygamy. From a preventive point of view, what about doing a big campaign so that women can accept polygamy?” he asked.

Ibrahim said women did not understand that when they were pregnant for nine months, or had “problems” when they hit their 50s, their men still wanted to “have fun”.
“So the man wants to marry again, and the wife gets jealous and asks for a divorce.”



This caused Zuraida to stand up and say that a gender approach was very demeaning.
Ahmad Zahid agreed, saying: “That man is a male chauvinist.” To this, Ibrahim giggled.
When Ibrahim said that it was allowed from the Islamic point of view, Zuraida hit back and said men must be held to blame, too.


When the House finally calmed down, Ahmad Zahid said although prevention could also be looked into, what was important was to take care of the family.


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Haha..

Petikan ini >>Ibrahim said women did not understand that when they were pregnant for nine months, or had “problems” when they hit their 50s, their men still wanted to “have fun”.

Bayangkan kalau lelaki asyik nak berseronok apa akibatnya.. Keluarga porak peranda..

Friday, May 16, 2008

Kisah Poligami - Keadilan????


He wants a fourth, and his wives agree 16 May 2008


Rosli Zakaria KUALA TERENGGANU: It is not often that two wives can get along without bickering and vying for their husband's attention.


But in this case, Mohamed Nor Awang, 51, has three wives - and they are supporting him in his decision to take a fourth wife.



The women have consented to him marrying again and all three went to the Syariah High Court yesterday to hear his application.



Mohamed Nor told Syariah High Court judge Sheikh Ahmad Ismail Hakim that he was capable of supporting a fourth wife and that he would be fair to all of them.



However, the judge was not taken in by his assurance. Sheikh Ahmad told Mohamed Nor to submit an additional affidavit to support his claims because as an odd-job worker earning about RM1,500 a month, he was not sure Mohamed Nor had the financial capacity to support all four wives and be fair to them.



At this juncture, Mohamed Nor's three wives stood up and asked the court to allow their husband to take a fourth wife.



The three wives are Wan Rukiah Mat Yusoff, 52, Kalthum Dolaj, 39, and Noraini Daud, 40, and they have 18 children.



Sheikh Ahmad told Mohamed Nor to provide additional proof - the wali and his future bride must come to court and he must produce his bank account to show that he has the financial capacity to support a fourth wife.



"You have until Sunday to provide the proof," said Sheikh Ahmad.


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Beginilah kerenah lelaki yang ingin berkahwin lagi.

Bayangkan dengan pendapatan yang hanya RM 1,500 dan mempunyai 3 isteri dan 18 anak.

Bolehkah berlaku adil?? Adil dari segi batin je.. alahai lelaki..

Anak-anaklah yang akan menjadi mangsa walhal bapa berseronok..hmmmm