Thursday, October 27, 2011

Layakkah bergelar ibu??

SALT LAKE CITY (AP) — A Utah woman accused of trying to sell her 13-year-old daughter's virginity pleaded guilty Monday to two sexual exploitation charges for having the girl model in her underwear for men.
The 33-year-old woman had also faced two first-degree felony counts of aggravated sex abuse of a child — and up to life in prison — but prosecutors agreed to drop those charges in exchange for her plea.
She now faces up to 30 years in prison at sentencing Dec. 5.
Authorities said the woman offered her daughter's virginity to a man in April in exchange for $10,000. Initially, the girl agreed to the arrangement and modeled twice in a bra and underwear for the man. Police said the girl then changed her mind.
Her mother also tried to sell sexually explicit pictures of the girl to another man.
The woman's boyfriend found text messages about the sale of the girl's virginity on the woman's cellphone. He turned them over to police.
She was arrested in May. Prosecutors said the men involved have not been charged.
The woman did not make a statement in court Monday and her defense attorney refused to comment after the hearing.
The Associated Press isn't naming the mother to avoid identifying her daughter.
http://news.yahoo.com/utah-mom-pleads-guilty-virginity-sale-case-183836340.html


BRIDGEPORT, Conn. (AP) — A Connecticut mother has pleaded guilty to charges that she forced her 4-year-old son to drink beer and gave her 10-month-old daughter beer and cocaine.
The Connecticut Post reports (http://bit.ly/pusj6y ) Juliette Dunn, of Bridgeport, pleaded guilty Wednesday to risk of injury to a child under the Alford Doctrine, where the defendant doesn't agree to the facts but agrees the state has enough evidence to win a conviction.
A companion, 33-year-old Lisa Jefferson, pleaded guilty to the same charges.
Police say officers were waved down in June by a neighbor who complained that a woman was feeding children beer at a playground.
The children were turned over to the Department of Children and Families after 29-year-old Dunn's arrest. Custody hasn't been decided.
It's unknown if either woman has a lawyer.
http://news.yahoo.com/mom-pleads-guilty-forcing-beer-children-112929972.html

* Dua berita dan kejadian yang berbeda, namun soal pokoknya adalah sama. 

Peranan wanita yang bergelar 'ibu'.  Layakkah si wanita digelar ibu??
Seorang ibu seharusnya melindungi anaknya.  Apakah disebabkan perut yang mengandungkan si anak, maka si ibu boleh buat sesuka hatinya. 


Dalam kes pertama, si ibu sampai sanggup memaksa anak perempuan berusia 13 tahun mempamerkan dan memperdagangkan tubuhnya dengan harga $ 10,000.  Gilakah perempuan ini???


Dalam kes kedua pula, si ibu menghidangkan dan memaksa si anak berusia 4 tahun meminum arak dan anak perempuan berusia 10 tahun meminum arak dan kokain.  Binatang apa si ibu ini???


Bila terbaca berita-berita sebegini yang berlaku di seluruh dunia, hati ini marah betul, kenapalah ibu-ibu sanggup buat begitu., itulah yang jadi tanda tanya di benak saya.


"Syurga di bawah tapak kaki ibu ".  Begitulah tinggi darjatnya wanita bergelar ibu.  Namun bolehkah pepatah tersebut digunapakai untuk kes-kes begini. 


Kekadang wanita yang terlalu bebas akhlaknya termengandung dan terpaksa lahirkan anak, namun belum bersedia untuk menjadi ibu.  Itu yang terjadi kes-kes mendera anak.  Kekadang si ibu terlalu banyak tekanan sehingga sakit mental dan melepaskan kemarahan dan ketidakpuasan terhadap anak-anak yang tidak berdosa.  


Kalau tidak berupaya menanggung tanggungjawab ini, saya berpendapat lebih baik anak-anak diserahkan kepada keluarga angkat yang baik peribadi dan kewangannya.  Cerah masa depan anak-anak yang terbabit.  


Ibu-ibu yang tak bertanggungjawab seharusnya dihukum agar mereka sedar, anak-anak adalah anugerah Tuhan, mereka tidak minta dilahirkan sebaliknya kita yang bertanggungjawab membawa mereka ke dunia ini.  Jadi seharusnya kita membesarkan mereka dengan baik sebagaimana ibu bapa kita membesarkan kita.   Anak-anak dilahirkan suci, ibubapa yang membentuk akhlaknya.
Baik buruknya generasi akan datang bergantung sepenuhnya kepada keluarga yang membimbingnya dan masyarakat sekeliling yang turut membentuk keperibadian mereka.






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